This week, while I was at the gym, I overheard a young woman says in Dutch,
“Ik heb weer verbinding” (in English: I am connected again!”)
She meant, of course, that the gym’s Wi-Fi was restored.
It made me smile and laugh. It also triggered something.
When I walk with my coachees during a walk-and-talk session, I often hear the same thing at the end:
“I feel reconnected with myself, with nature.”
As we often talk about being connected, there’s another kind of connection that’s far more meaningful to me: our human connection.
The kind that has nothing to do with Wi-Fi signals or laptop screens, but everything to do presence, attention, and authenticity.
Authenticity for me means following your heart and being true to yourself. No matter where you are or what you do.
I walk alongside expats. I listen not just to what they say, but to what’s behind their words.
Being outside helps people slow down and breathe. There’s no rush just space to talk, think, or be quiet.
Often, that’s when people start to feel more like themselves again.
Somewhere in their story, there’s usually a deeper feeling or wish that comes up.
And together, we follow that toward more clarity, more calm, and a sense of direction that feels right for them.”
Learning a new language is full of these little challenges not just vocabulary or grammar, but understanding tone, intention, and nuance. That’s why I always encourage expats to keep practicing.
Even native Dutch speakers get them mixed up sometimes!
If you are learning the Dutch language please keep that in mind.
Have conversations. Make mistakes. Ask questions. Laugh at misunderstandings.
Because talking is learning, and learning is growing.
And in those moments whether it’s over coffee, during a walk, or in a quiet chat at the gym, you may just find the kind of connection that truly matters.